I worried about what growing up without a father might do to him.
There wasn’t some dramatic goodbye. No screaming fight in a driveway. No final speech about how he wasn’t ready to be a dad.
He just stopped answering.
By the time Noah was born, I had already accepted that every diaper, fever, school meeting, broken toy, and late-night panic was going to be mine.
I worried about what growing up without a father might do to him.
Noah became the kind of kid who noticed people.
Turns out I should have worried less.
Noah became the kind of kid who noticed people.
He just paid attention.
If an older woman dropped something at the grocery store, Noah picked it up.
And when he was fourteen, he noticed Mr. Vance.
Mr. Vance lived across the street from us.
Most days, Mr. Vance sat in an old wooden chair on his porch.
His wife, Margaret, had died a few years earlier, and after that he seemed to fold into himself.
He had two grown children, Aaron and Claire, but I rarely saw them. I assumed they lived far away.
Most days, Mr. Vance sat in an old wooden chair on his porch with his hands resting over his stomach.
People waved.
Sometimes he waved back.
