Robert’s expression hardened.
“This is selfish.”
“You can call it whatever you like. I call it self-respect.”
I explained the new rules.
I would not accept last-minute babysitting demands.
I would not pay for entire family celebrations alone.
I would not cancel my plans simply because theirs were more important to them.
If they wanted me in their lives, they would need to treat my time and needs with consideration.
Amanda’s voice became quieter.
“What happens if we cannot accept these boundaries?”
“Then there is nothing more to discuss.”
I kept my tone calm.
“My door will be open when you are ready to see me as a whole person. But I will not beg for basic respect.”
Amanda turned and walked toward her car.
Robert remained for another moment.
“I never thought you would actually do this,” he said.
“Neither did I,” I admitted. “Apparently, I am stronger than all of us believed.”
