If your partner seems unusually anxious about his appearance or sexual performance, reassurance can help.

But reassurance should be sincere.

Tell him what you genuinely appreciate rather than giving generic compliments simply to make the concern disappear.

13. It Could Be About Physical Comfort for You, Too

Remember that sexual preferences develop between two people.

Your partner may prefer a certain position because he notices that you enjoy it.

Perhaps you respond more positively.

Perhaps you feel more relaxed.

Perhaps your body seems more comfortable that way.

Maybe he likes seeing that you’re enjoying yourself.

A person’s preferred position is therefore sometimes influenced by their partner’s reactions.

This is one reason direct communication can reveal more than guessing.

14. What If You Don’t Like His Favorite Position?

This is where communication becomes important.

You do not have to enjoy the same things simply because you’re in a relationship.

If your partner prefers one position but you don’t, your discomfort matters.