There is nothing contradictory about wanting a loving partner and being capable of living alone.
The real distinction is between choosing a relationship because it enriches one’s life and entering one because society has convinced a person that being single is unacceptable.
Marriage can be meaningful, but it is not the only legitimate form of a meaningful life.
14. Growing Older May Bring New Questions About Companionship and Support
As people age, their priorities and practical needs can change.
A woman who has lived independently for decades may eventually think more carefully about retirement, healthcare, housing, caregiving, and the kinds of relationships she wants in later life.
These concerns are not exclusive to single women. People in marriages and long-term partnerships also need
to plan for illness, retirement, and changes in family circumstances.
However, someone living alone may need to make certain plans more deliberately.
Who could help if she became ill? Who would be contacted in an emergency? Is her housing suitable for her needs? Does she have a financial plan for retirement? Has she maintained friendships and connections outside work?
