It doesn’t necessarily indicate a problem, but it may be worth asking what he likes about it.

Keep the question curious rather than accusatory.

Try:

“What do you like most about that position?”

That’s much better than:

“Why do you always insist on doing it that way?”

The first invites conversation.

The second sounds like criticism.

His answer may surprise you.

He may say:

“It feels better.”

“I feel more relaxed.”

“I like seeing you.”

“I don’t feel as self-conscious.”

“I thought you preferred it.”

Or something else entirely.

You may discover that you’ve been worrying about something that never existed.

17. Sexual Communication Can Strengthen a Relationship

Many couples talk about finances.

Work.

Children.

Family.

Travel.

But avoid discussing sex because it feels awkward.

That can create unnecessary misunderstandings.

You do not need a formal meeting.

A simple conversation can be enough.

Ask:

What do you enjoy?

What do you not enjoy?