Making that assumption without evidence can create unnecessary conflict.
If you genuinely wonder whether outside influences are affecting your sexual relationship, talk about it openly.
Avoid turning the conversation into an accusation.
The goal should be understanding, not interrogation.
25. What If He Never Wants Face-to-Face Intimacy?
If this is your actual concern, focus on the emotional pattern rather than the position itself.
Ask yourself:
Does he also avoid affection outside sex?
Does he dislike kissing or cuddling?
Does he avoid emotional conversations?
Does he seem detached during everyday life?
Does he become irritated whenever you request more intimacy?
If the answer to all of these is yes, then the issue may be broader than sexual position.
But if he is affectionate, loving, communicative, and emotionally connected outside the bedroom, his position preference is probably just that—a preference.
26. Sometimes People Are Afraid to Say What They Really Like
Sexual communication can be surprisingly difficult.
