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36. The Most Useful Question May Be Surprisingly Simple

Instead of asking:

“What does his favorite position reveal about his hidden psychology?”

try asking:

“Does this work well for both of us?”

That question is much more practical.

If the answer is yes, there may be no problem at all.

If the answer is no, now you have something worth discussing.

You can find alternatives.

You can vary the routine.

You can talk about comfort.

You can explore what each person likes.

That’s how sexual compatibility develops.

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37. What His Choice May Really Mean

When your partner repeatedly prefers sex from behind, it could mean:

He enjoys the physical sensation.

He feels more comfortable physically.

He likes the visual experience.

He feels more relaxed.

He prefers familiar routines.

He likes taking the lead.

He feels less self-conscious.

He believes you enjoy it.

Or he simply likes it.

Several of these can be true simultaneously.